The only person you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday.
Context
This anonymous quote provides the healthiest and most productive frame for personal competition. When we compare ourselves to others, we enter a race with no finish line, often leading to envy, insecurity, and burnout.
The only meaningful benchmark for your progress is your own past self. The question is not "Am I better than them?" but "Am I better than I was yesterday?" This shifts the focus inward to your own journey of growth. Did you learn something new? Were you a little kinder? Did you make a better choice? This is the true measure of self-improvement.
This quote is a liberating mantra. It frees you from the toxic trap of comparison and empowers you to run your own race at your own pace, focusing on the only competition that truly matters: the one with the person you used to be.