The walls we build around us to keep out the sadness also keep out the joy.
Context
Jim Rohn highlights the double-edged sword of emotional self-protection. In an attempt to shield ourselves from pain, disappointment, or "sadness," we often construct emotional walls. While these walls may seem to offer safety, they are not selective.
The same wall that blocks out pain also blocks out "joy," love, connection, and profound happiness. To be fully open to the beauty and joy of life, we must also be willing to be vulnerable to its potential pains. We cannot selectively numb emotion.
This quote is an invitation to courageous openness. It encourages us to dismantle our defensive walls and embrace life with all its richness, understanding that the capacity to feel deep joy is intrinsically linked to the willingness to feel deep emotion, including sadness.